So I’m almost 100% certain that at some point in their lives everyone get just the tiniest bit crazy. 😁I mean you’ll be fine for the whole day even though you woke up feeling nauseous and definitely didn’t want to go to university at 9 a.m on a Monday because that means that you have to be up at 6 a.m for the hour long commute that you have to arrange your social life about. It also means that you are tired. 💴
On Monday I had that kind of a day. My alarm went off at 6 a.m telling me that it was never going to let me get enough sleep. I rolled out of bed and spent 20 minutes somehow doing nothing which resulted in my rushing of my make up application. All I can say about that it make sure to check that you haven’t got bright pink lipstick on your fingers when your putting on your necklace💄 it leaves a nice smudge that makes everyone think that you were going at it with somebody:oops:😘 and gains you numerous stares from strange men over 40 that suddenly think that the 18 year old with lipstick on has literally popped out of a porno of some kind – YUK!!!😷
Anyways, I missed my bus. That was the moment I realised I was have a bad day. The moment that I ran for a bus (something that I NEVER do) and it drove on without me I just knew it was gonna be a shifty day. Call it what you will a sixth sense, a psychic ability or a premonition I saw the entire day flash in front of my eyes and I almost went back home. The trouble with being a university student is that suddenly you’re not a teenager anymore. I mean sure I’m eight-teen but I’m meant to be an adult. That is not easy. I’m suddenly expected to know exactly what the right things is to do and to not make mistakes. Sure people say that’s how you learn through mistakes and that it’s okay to make them but when you do you always seem to end up shit creek without a paddle.
On Monday I made the mistake of being tired which in all fairness isn’t my fault after all it’s not like I went to sleep late or anything in fact I went to sleep at 10 o’clock I was that tired from Saturday night (No you filthy minded people I was not doing the dirty or bumping the uglies on Saturday night I was visiting family). All the same the trek to the next bus stop felt like I had walked a pilgrimage with bare feet and broken glass as the sidewalk. Okay, so I’m exaggerating it wasn’t that bad but I’m a lazy soul and we don’t like to have to move when we don’t want to. It’s probably be why I’ve never been a morning person.
The first lecture I had was horrific with me trying not to fall asleep and for the second not even 2 coffees from Costa (God bless the caffeinated goodness) could keep me from dosing off. Of course I had to wake up just to be reminded of the horrid test I have next week. Whilst I’m not exactly worried about the test I’m a ball of stress. What got me going crazy on the inside wasn’t just about having a bad day. Oh no, it was the fact that everyone kept looking at me. At first I thought I’d been caught sleeping in class and then when left I thought it might be something in my teeth or on my face or that my crazy hair had, well been looking crazy.
Alas, this was not the case, I’d checked myself in the toilet mirror before leaving campus and again in my compact. Only when I got home and started to cook dinner did somebody tell me what was wrong. I need it to be noted that I love my younger brother very much and that in all of his 15 years of life he has never been a social butterfly but he does know how to behave to other people which is why you can understand why what happened next made explode.
He walks into the kitchen was s I begin to prepare dinner looks at me and says “Ewww you have so many spots on your face go wash it.” Now, I’m not somebody that gets easily upset because of other people’s insults but I used to have bad skin (not that it’s perfect now but it’s lost so much of its extremity). I’ve always been conscious about my skin, my thighs, stomach and bum. I’m not so much worried about having perfect skin I just wish that the spots didn’t leave horrid dark spots speckled all over my chin, forehead and cheeks. About my thighs yeah I would like a “thigh gap” but purely because the so-called “chub-rub” between them can get painful to an unnatural level. I mean seriously to wear a skirt or dress (without tights) or even shorts is like asking for my thighs to create enough friction to start a bush fire between them and burn me from my thighs inwards.
So, as you can imagine I had a moment of madness. I firstly flung the wooden spoon I was about to use to store the contents of the pan straight at him (yes, I missed. yes, I throw like a girl – I am one) and went utterly silent. On the inside I was screaming and fighting, hating everyone and everything in the world I wanted to just let it all out to go hit something and curl up and cry all at the same time. So I did the only thing I could I walked out of the house and crossed the roads before I have even had any idea as to what I was doing. I was just so stick and tired of everything and everyone. I needed to escape.
Maybe it was childish and maybe I am just a bratty teen that needs to grow the Hell up but whatever! I ended up in a park sat on the swings with a slushy (see I can be responsible no alcohol);)🍷I was there for 3 hours I ignored the calls I got and needless to say that when I got home and my mom was angry at my disappearing act all I did was stand there as a tear slid down my face. I know it’s such a silly thing to do and to be upset about but honestly I’m like a pressurized time bomb when it comes to stress I store all my worries and frustrations inside adding more and more emotion and anger until I explode and this time I never properly exploded I cried the tiniest bit and forced myself to snap out of it.
Some people might say that’s just growing up, well, honestly I’m not. I stopped crying because I hate that it makes me feel weak…so many emotions do that to me now. In all honesty I’m just trying to be happy but I swear I suffer from SAD (Seasonally Afflicted Depression) every time that winter and autumn roll rounding grumpy, sad start to loathe myself and others around me it’s a silly thing really but it’s happened for the past 4 years.
It might be bad form to be so brutally honest about oneself within a blog post on the internet but at the same time I don’t need to have perfect form. I am after all unfinished and perfect as it is. There is beauty to be found in broken things and everything breaks at some point. The challenge isn’t whether or not you pass or fail it’s about how well you handle that situation, which something my mom’s always taught me and something that I will always live by. In the end all we are is a soul with a body and emotion in a humanoid vessel each of us uniquely perfect with no two souls being identical, maybe that is why I had a bad day, it was just my turn.